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How to Find a Girl?

Are you trying to find a girl but all your attempts fail? You've tried everything; bars, clubs, online dating sites but nothing seems to work? You are not alone! This is very typical situation among men... You have to understand that the reason of all your failures has very little to do with the way you look, the car you drive, your job, your clothes or any other attributes of your social status. Your main problem is the lack of self-confidence.

Most girls are not attracted to beauty or money. They are attracted to masculinity, yang and charisma. Handsome appearance and a thick wallet are the external manifestations of a genuine masculine power, which is the the actual root and cause of man's love success.





What to Do?

Although your self-confidence is very important, it is not the only factor. Your chances to find a girl depend on the following aspects:

#1 - Confidence
You have to become a hunter. You have to believe that you entirely deserve everything you request. Girls immediately recognize this confidence and follow the men who are certain about things they do.


#2 - Focus
When you are trying to find a girl, you have to stop thinking in terms of "whatever I can get". You need to determine your goal. Who do you want to find?

  A girl for one night?
  A girl friend for casual relationship?
  A girl you want to fall in love with?
  Your future wife?

Clear understanding of your goals will help you to focus and efficiently apply your initiative.


#3 - Uniqueness
Unlike most guys who are pretty straightforward beings, girls live in an "imaginary world" full of senses, fantasies and illusions. Every woman is a little girl who keeps waiting for a prince who will finally come and take her to the magical world.

You got it? Make the girl believe you are the one! Become this prince for real. It doesn't matter that you can't take her for a ride in a Porsche or fly to Bahamas for a romantic weekend Bahamas. Become unique, spontaneous, creative and romantic. Forget about boring rules and standards. Reveal your artistic and wild nature.

Remember that the vibe between two of you is the most exiting journey and the actual magical world!


#4 - Aesthetics
Do you know that most women are by nature more sensitive then men to aesthetics, neatness, tidiness, cleanliness, fashion, and style? Keep this in mind. Apart from good clothes, you should take a good care of your body, hair and skin.

  Do you have a nice haircut?
  Isn't your hair dry? Don't you have split ends
  Does your skin looks good? Do you use lotions and masks?
  What clothes and shoes are you wearing?
  How well are you shaved or trimmed?
  Are your nails look good?

Unless everything is perfect, you should do the following:

  Go to better, more expensive hair salon
  Make good manicure and pedicure
  Spend a day at a nice spa. Let it become a habit
  Get rid of old or untrendy clothes and especially shoes






Where to Go?

There are several major online and offline pickup zones and every such zone requires specific approach and behavior patterns.

Online
:

  Online Dating Sites
  Chat Rooms
  Video Chat Rooms
  Social Networks
  Forums

Offline
:

  Work / School
  Clubs
  Speed Dating Events
  Shopping malls
  Bars
  Transportation (plane, bus, train, etc.)
  Entertainment and cultural events(movie, festival, museum, exhibition)
  Street

Coming soon... Stay tuned...


How to Behave?

When your goal is finding a girl, you can either be completely spontaneous and act based on the circumstances or you can develop a number of approaches and behavior models. You can also combine and mix both tactics... One of the most tricky model is being yourself...

Coming soon... Stay tuned...








 


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